Proof of learning week two

Throughout the course of week 2, we have really started to get into the swing of things. There are several aspects of the class that have taken a turn, including the quality of the discussion posts, the articles we have been reading/discussing, and our topics for the final project. We continue to use the technology theme, this week, just how it relates to love. 


To begin, the first thing that i have noticed, and should be the first thing noticed, are the discussion posts. This week i feel like everybody in the class has seemed to have really get the hang of using the online discussion posts, and have really gotten extensive with the posts. This is really contributing to my perspective of each topic discussed because i am now able to see other peoples logic and the way they think about it, which can at times stray my opinion one way or the other. I think this holds true to several people in the class and i think it will be great if it continues like this. 


The material covered this week in class discussed online dating relationships in lots of depth. After going through all of these articles and talking on the discussions, my stance remains the same on them. At this current juncture in my life, i still am against them. First issue i had with them is the fact that your privacy is exploited and most people do not realize it. The Pew statistics on how people feel about their privacy on online dating is as follows- 6% said that the websites do an "excellent" job, 32% stated they do a "good" job, 33% said a "fair" job and 12% said they do a "poor" job. These are according to the pew article. The results do not favor one end or the other. I think most people are confused and are not aware of their surroundings sometimes. Sarah Owens posted a great comment relating to this. She said "People are constantly hearing these horror stories about people getting their identities stolen amoung other things. For this reason, I believe that most people have a misconception about the safety of using online dating sites." If people were to do their research about what can happen and the risks first, online dating would not have as many issues like this. 


Online dating also is not real life. It is like living in a reality world, and its basing "compatibility" off of test results. Our ABC article brought about a discussion referencing things like this. Online dating can pull people in and have them expect to find the "perfect person". Jennifer Williams made a great point "One of our first conversations wasn't, "hey, what denomination are you because if we aren't the same there's no way I'm dating you." This doesn't typically take place in real life so why should it on an online dating website? I just feel like online dating websites are people being partially lazy and not actually going out and looking. The difference with places online is that 

they are often easier to access, using a browser and a search engine or through e-mailing people in the know. This is a quote from the rabbit in the hole article. This is just proving my point that people are just being lazy and need to get out and try to find somebody instead of just giving up. 

The last thing discussed were soul mates. I had a strong disagreement with the article read. The article talked about soulmates having several things in common, and gave the perception that there was a "perfect person". In my opinion that does not exist. Every relationship its going to take its turns for the worse or better and they are going to require work to continue. Ryan Wrigley quotes "I believe that the definition of a soulmate is someone you are intmate with and love dearly. Soulmates may not always have the same interests, however I believe that when in a romantic relationship (hence being one's soulmate) you develop common interests with the other person. A soulmate may not like the game of golf when they first meet the other, but because the other likes it, over time the first comes to enjoy the game. This is true both ways." These things require work and there is no perfect match, it is just something to strive for. The article begs to differ and quotes ""of course optimism can provide protection from becoming unhappy in relationships". Absolutely disagree, and if this is how people are viewing love currently than i am sorry for them. 

Because of the last 2 weeks and the topics covered, which were technology related, i have an idea for my project topic. I am going to do it on something that involves the way technology has effected the way we communicate in the modern era. The reasoning behind this is the first week, our technology discussion led to facebook, which led this week into online dating. All forms of communication through technology. Those are my thoughts for week 2.